Scorpio’s World

Thoughts on Politics, Race, and Middle Earth

We ‘ALL’ Have a Back Story

Posted by scorpiomkm on January 7, 2009

Take a look at this:



Now, “No big deal!” huh. Just another ‘jock’ coming off a football game: exhausted, excited, and grasping to string two words together, right!

We often make assumptions about people, don’t we. “Oh, she’s just a slow thinker!” or “His clothes are always messy!” or “Those People are just too violent!” (my last example is a result of my still thinking about Gaza <g>)

We all do (and say) a lot of stupid things about People without KNOWING the ‘Back Story’ of their lives.

When I first saw the above video my first reaction was: “What’s the big deal? Just another dumb Jock!”

Right!!   : )

Then I read this from the internet:

After the Chargers beat the Colts Saturday, I didn’t really think much of Darren Sproles‘ post-game interview with ESPN’s Ed Werder. Partly because I figured he was exhausted after putting the team on his back for most of the night, but also because playing behind LaDainian Tomlinson means he’s rarely in the spotlight. I just assumed he was equal parts nervous and overwhelmed.

And then I saw this comment from FanHouse reader CathyO:

I have stuttered my entire life and I can not tell you how proud I am of Darren Sproles for not being afraid to speak his mind to others, no matter how the words come out. I watched his interview after he scored the winning touchdown at last week’s game – that was awesome by the way – and when I heard him speak, I almost lost my breath. It is not every day we see someone as successful as he is stuttering on TV and it was refreshing to see. He has no idea how many people he has inspired and how great of an example he is to the thousands of kids and teens who stutter who are afraid to speak because of their stutter. …

Thank you to Darren for not being afraid to express yourself. By doing so, you have given many the courage to do the same. I have talked to several people in the NSA (National Stuttering Association) who saw that interview (including some teenagers) and you truly inspired them to say what they want to say no matter what. We are all so proud of you!

Last season, the North County Times‘ Mike Sullivan talked to Sproles about his life-long battle with stuttering.

“If the cameras are in my face, that’s when it gets hard for me,” Sproles said … “I guess it is because I get nervous, I think. That’s the reason why it gets bad.” …

“[In high school] I had to talk to the media a lot, and once they put a camera in my face that’s when it got bad,” Sproles said. “I just had to work on it. I couldn’t really stress about it, because that’s just me. That’s the way the Lord made me.” …

“Sometimes you can use your hands to get words out,” said Sproles, who routinely moves his hands or slaps his palms while talking. “I was told to tap my hand on my leg while I’m talking to help me get my words out.”

I didn’t think I could like Sproles any more than I did moments after he racked up 328 all-purpose yards against Indy. I stand corrected.

According to Wikipedia, he majored in speech pathology at Kansas St. More importantly, though, Sproles serves as inspiration for others who stutter. It’s a great story, and one certainly worth telling.

A lot of times, I think, we — fans and media — are too easily distracted by the absurd and lose sight of the important stuff. So before something shiny diverts my attention, let me just say: nice work, Darren. Here’s to hoping you get your Michael Turner payday in the coming months.


                                                                OOPS!   : )

                                  I felt like kicking myself …. AGAIN!  : )

I recall my first year as a high school teacher. I thought I was pretty good and that students SHOULD hang onto each-and-every word that flowed from my mouth. Well, there was this young man in  my Class ~ a nice kid ~ that would greet me, “Hi, Mr. Brown” and then like clockwork go back to his seat … always in the last row … and put his head down and sleep.

Initially I kinda gently told him not to sleep in my Class and pay attention to what I was saying. He would politely say, “Yes, Sir” then after 20 minutes or so would fall asleep again.

This went on for several weeks, so one day I had had enough (“this kid finds my Class boring. How dare he!” <g>) So I shouted his name to answer a question I had raised ~ to the delight of the rest of the Class. He jerks up and says, “What was the question again, Sir?” to the pure delight of the Class.

“That’s what I thought,” I reply with a scornful look back at him.

Now get this: After Class he comes up to me and says …. “Mr. Brown, I’m sorry I sleep in your Class so much. I really like your teaching and Black History ~ but see, I work at a job after school to help support my mother and two sisters. I don’t get off work until 2AM … so I don’t get much sleep … but I’ll try not to fall asleep again in your Class.”

                                                                           BIG OOPS!

I later contacted some people to confirm what he had told me, and what he was telling me was the honest TRUTH. And I must say that from that point forward … he caused ME to GROW as a Teacher …. as well as a Man; all because he made me Understand the CONTEXT of his LIFE: his ‘Back Story’.

I’ll never forget him.

My Hero.


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